THE TWO SEXES: THE FEMALE “G” SPOT
The “G” spot appears to be a small cluster of nerve endings, glands, ducts and blood vessels sited around a woman’s urethra, or urinary tract. This area cannot normally be felt when the woman is unaroused, only becoming distinguishable as a specific area during deep vaginal stimulation. When this happens it swells, sometimes very rapidly, and a small mass with distinct edges stands out from the vaginal wall. As it seems to have no organic function other than helping a woman achieve a high degree of sexual fulfilment and, at orgasm, can appear to “ejaculate” a clear liquid similar in composition to that created by the prostate, some experts think that the “G” spot is a rudimentary form of the male prostate gland.
The easiest way for a woman to find her “G” spot is to sit or squat, because lying down positions the relevant spot further away. First stimulating your “G” spot can feel like wanting to urinate, so it is a good idea to start your explorations while sitting on the toilet. Once your bladder is empty, you will know that the sensation is caused by the “G” spot, and not by having a full bladder.
Using your fingers, apply firm upward pressure on the front of the internal vaginal wall, perhaps pressing down simultaneously with the other hand on the outside of the abdomen. As it becomes stimulated, the spot should start to swell and will feel like a lump between the fingers inside and outside your vagina. Extremely pleasurable contractions may sweep through the uterus and you may experience a deep, satisfying orgasm, which will feel totally different from a clitoral orgasm.
At this point you may also find that you ejaculate a small amount of clear fluid from the urethra. This is not urine, despite its appearance.
Since your partner can reach the spot more easily, it may be more effective if he stimulates you. Lie down on a bed with two firm pillows underneath your hips, with your legs slightly apart and your bottom a little in the air. Your partner can lie down, lean close against you, gently insert two fingers (palm down) and stroke the front vaginal wall.
Sexual positions that produce “G” spot stimulation are the woman-on-top and the rear-entry positions. When a woman is on top of a man, she can control the depth and direction of her partner’s penis, and can move forward or from side-to-side to guide it to the place that feels best for her. In rear-entry positions, the penis is rubbing directly on the front wall of the vagina in which the “G” spot is located.
A man can help by moving his own body and pressing the base of his penis to make sure that its head makes full contact with the “G” spot. The result of these movements can be a series of intense orgasms for both partners.
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